Marlee Liss - Storytelling, Somatic Healing and Re-Imagining Justice for Violence

Listen as Jane and Marlee Liss discuss healing after sexual violence, reconnecting with your body, why the court system so often fails survivors, and how restorative justice and a rethink of masculinity could offer a better path forward.

When the body feels like a “crime scene”, how do you heal?

An all-round brilliant woman, Marlee is not only a colleague we admire, but someone that we’re now lucky enough to call a friend.

Marlee Liss is an award-winning speaker, leading survivor advocate, author and somatic educator. Her personal survivor case set precedent in the North American legal system, and in 2024 she founded Survivors 4 Justice Reform, a global, volunteer-run, survivor-led coalition that works to advance policy change that challenges the failures and violence of punitive, carceral systems.

Marlee shares how writing became central to her healing, from late-night scribbling to get the feelings out of her body, to a way of connecting with others. Her forthcoming book, If I Had Known Then (February 9th 2027), follows her experience of healing and fighting for justice after trauma. This was a conversation we were looking forward to for months, and it’s one you won’t want to miss. 

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Key Moments

00:22 - Expanding the conversation
01:04 - Writing after trauma
03:01 - Storytelling and empathy
04:23 - Dance: Detachment & reconnection
07:06 - Somatic healing: Our bodies have wisdom
11:46 - How the criminal legal system fails survivors
16:23 - We don't have to be complacent
18:37 - Justice doesn’t look the same for all survivors
19:30 - Survivors 4 Justice Reform

Key Topics

Links and Mentions

Marlee's memoir, If I Had Known Then, releases February 2027 with Penguin Random House.

Visit Marlee's website to download her free justice resource

Find out more about Survivors 4 Justice Reform

Instagram: @marleeliss | @survivors4justicereform

Join the coalition: www.survivors4justicereform.com/join

All sources, statistics, multimedia clips, and music credits are available on Substack.

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The Defendants is a podcast exploring how sexual assault cases move through the justice system… and why it never seems to work in favour of victims. We want to know what has to change within the system for it to actually work, and we are interrogating what justice means in the aftermath of trauma. This is a podcast where we figure out exactly how this system fails, why, and what to do about it.

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